Are You a Capable Sexual Partner

I had a request from one of my friends to write a piece about what a man should do to be considered a capable sex partner. Now, this can be very challenging, considering that we are all individuals and what one person may like, another may hate… but just like anything else… there are always some standards that should be met. Ladies, don’t let these men get away with anything less. That’s why some of them are walking around thinking they are handling business, but let me tell you, you aren’t unless you are at least, meeting this criteria:

1. Fourplay- Ok, so some women may think that they are beyond the foreplay; that they can in fact, be ready to go… just like that. However, whether you are mentally or physically stimulated, you need to pre-game before the show. Although physical stimulation is great, it does not take away from the mental. Men, remember that most women are in their head first, if you can make us feel comfortable, you can have us open and ready for business.

2. Attentiveness- So men, it doesn’t matter how “good” you are (well maybe a little, LOL), if you aren’t into us! You can easily break our connection with you if you are not attentive and that will ultimately make the whole act, worthless. The things you need to do are: look in our eyes, talk to us, and let us know that it all about us at that particular moment. We want to feel like no one else exists in your world (although some of you probably have multiple women on the side). But it doesn’t matter if you know how to make her feel… it’s like, “you are mine and me… yours!” Now what woman doesn’t want that, even if only for a minute?

3. Workability- Last, but certainly not least, is workability. I mean, come on guys! We know not every man is working with the gold wrapper, BUT you have to know how to do something with your package or at least your pre-game procedures (*ahem* you know what I mean, Mr. Go Down South). Us ladies, we will work with you if we like you, but you got to have the basics (listed in this article) for us to consider. All I am saying is, if you slack in one area, step it up in another! That seems simple enough, but can you handle it?

Good Luck Men… I should probably be wishing the ladies luck! Either way, have fun… MUAH!

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