Drunken Hot Girl

Saturday evening, sitting on the pier in the District of Columbia with the wind blowing through your hair, light sprinkle from the waterfront misting your cheeks, and subtle sounds of city cars in the background, can sometimes have an arousing effect on a single woman with an open mind… take that woman and multiply her by 3 and you have a full fledge conversation with no limitations. Much like Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte of Sex in the City, we too have our tales, but what about the rest of you? I know we all have something to tell. So what if we talk about the infamous sex after dark. You know what encounter I am referring to… the one that happen after 3 drinks and a cab ride home. So I ask, is sex better while under the influence of alcohol?

After my girls and I had our conversation, I came to realize that more of us practice this than we care to admit. You walk out of the club feeling free and liberated. The only thought on your mind, “I’m going to work him out!” But is it really that the sex is that good after consumption of vodka martinis and shots of Patron OR is it the fact that we have no inhibitions? While intoxicated, you let it all hang out (literally), you do all the things that you would normally be too afraid to even attempt. So, are we hiding behind drunken excuses as a way to share our inner freak? Hmmmm… I wanted to back my suspicions with some statistics and this is what I found: Did you know that 1 out of 20 women between the ages of 18 and 50 have NEVER had sex sober? Wow! That’s almost scary. I believe that these women are either afraid to be themselves, or they have practiced sex like this for so long that it is the only way they know how to do it. What do you do when you know no other way?

While drunken sex can be fun, daring and exciting, sober sex is real, intimate and worth the uncomfortable beginnings. My advice to anyone that may fall into this category would be to try sober sex. It can be daunting at first, especially if you have never had the pleasure to experience it in a sober state of mind, but it will allow you to release your insecurities and embrace your body and ability. You will come to a place that permits you to be free and confident in yourself and that alone, is worth the try. Good Luck!

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