The Cheating Scale: Ain't Nobody Got Time For That

So I was reading a site that talked about this "cheating scale."  Psssssshhh... What in the world is a cheating scale?  Basically, the site is a designated "safe space" for women to talk to a man about their relationship issues, but I ask you again... what is a "cheating scale?"  According to the blog I read, it is the degree to which cheating is acceptable or tolerable I would say.

That makes me ask... is some cheating better than other cheating?  I'm so confused.

You see in my book, faithful is faithful and infidelity is infidelity.  I cannot outline the perimeters of another relationship, but what I will say is when you set those boundaries... THAT'S IT!  Ain't no cheating scale (please excuse my ebonics)!  Sheesh, people come up with the most ridiculous crap which serves only them when it is convenient for them.  Don't you despise that?

All I have to say to that is know what you are getting into when you date, propose, engage, or marry someone.  Again, I cannot say what is appropriate, acceptable, or tolerable
in your relationship, because while I may not care if my man watches porn, for example, you just might.  However, once you agree to those terms of the relationship (you, meaning both of you), don't let this fool slide by saying, "well, I only let her please me, I didn't touch her."

Ain't nobody got time for that!

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