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Ever wonder why you care about someone to the extent that you do? Sure, the others might have looked good or dressed in the best and some can even hold a brilliant conversation, but why are you so attached to this particular one? Many of us have scratched our heads trying to figure this one out and even more of us have judged that tall, dark and handsome guy walking with the chick that isn't so... (ahem) pretty... trying to wrap their mind around this. What in the world does she have?
The answer is simple... it's the little things! When someone expresses interest in you, beyond your attire, your material possessions and your physical need; but when they show you they hold you with high regard... that's what sets them apart. Nothing in life is written in stone, so go with the the flow a bit more and let the true you shine through. If I have said it once, I have said it a million times; sure there are guidelines in life and love, but guidelines are meant to guide you, not dictate your relationship as if it were under watchful eye by Mother Teresa herself. If you want to kiss on the first date, go for it if the feeling is mutual. If you want to buy him something for no apparent reason, forget the expensive Gucci loafers and go with the wristband he said he wanted 3 weeks ago. It shows you are paying attention. Now I know you are probably thinking... "shoot, I'd want the Gucci loafers," and I would too, but you'll have plenty of time to get the "loafers" once she/he is in your life for more than a season.
It is probably rather odd to reference Jennifer Lopez in an article based around lasting love and relationships, but I cannot think of anyone else who said it better, "my love don't cost a thing!"
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The answer is simple... it's the little things! When someone expresses interest in you, beyond your attire, your material possessions and your physical need; but when they show you they hold you with high regard... that's what sets them apart. Nothing in life is written in stone, so go with the the flow a bit more and let the true you shine through. If I have said it once, I have said it a million times; sure there are guidelines in life and love, but guidelines are meant to guide you, not dictate your relationship as if it were under watchful eye by Mother Teresa herself. If you want to kiss on the first date, go for it if the feeling is mutual. If you want to buy him something for no apparent reason, forget the expensive Gucci loafers and go with the wristband he said he wanted 3 weeks ago. It shows you are paying attention. Now I know you are probably thinking... "shoot, I'd want the Gucci loafers," and I would too, but you'll have plenty of time to get the "loafers" once she/he is in your life for more than a season.
It is probably rather odd to reference Jennifer Lopez in an article based around lasting love and relationships, but I cannot think of anyone else who said it better, "my love don't cost a thing!"
Want thoughtful gift ideas? Go "Like" my Facebook Page www.facebook.com/askheatherg
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