Open Your Mouth

I’ve come to realize that a closed mouth doesn’t get fed, so to speak. That’s true in most every aspect of life, be it business, love, or a friendship (but of course I’m referring to the love life). People are not mind readers, nor are we meant to be. Bottom line; if you want something, ask. If you do not like something, tell. If you love something, speak (whispers preferred.. lol). Seriously, I think that the issues most of us have nowadays, is that we get into situations so fast, but do not think about the consequences or the end results. TRUST ME, if you did, you would save yourself a lot of time and heartache.

You know it is always required of me that I play devil’s advocate, so here it is. Yes… even “I” have fell into that stigma of being “wrapped up in the moment.” But, it isn’t always a bad thing to go for what you feel in that moment because there are rare occurrences where things, people, and feelings are mutually understood without verbal confirmations being necessary. However, in my experience, even when you feel that those vibes are on point, there’s still the chance that you are on one level while he maybe on another. The result… devastation.

The time that it takes to sit down and have a light-hearted, but thorough, conversation is far more valuable than leaving loose ends and unanswered questions. While you’re thinking that you’re about to be the wife, he’s thinking you’re merely company for that night (it’s true)! Just remember that what you want at the moment; be it sex, material things, simple companionship… whatever… is less obtainable if the overall vision is blurred. So be patient, be particular, and in Lehman’s terms, Open Your Mouth!

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