Will He Like My Naked Body?

The thought of getting undressed, lying beside him, touching and caressing his chest, and kissing his full lips... it all sounds so good to a woman on the verge of getting "busy" until... wait... "I gotta get naked??" Most women have had these insecurities at some point, be it about stretch marks or big nips (lol). I think a million and one questions cross our minds in the mist of getting down and dirty even when we have nothing to worry about.

"Will he like my bra?"

"Does my thighs look fat?"

"I wonder if my cellulite is showing?"

The fact of the matter is, there isn't much that a man notices in "the moment." What he sees is a beautiful, bare naked woman in front of him. Most guys can probably hardly believe it, let alone pay attention to the tattoo you should not have got when you were 17 . This isn't to say that the anxieties you feel are invalid; but more to reassure you that while you may have some things to physically work on, don't allow your insecurities to destroy this special moment.

We, women, need to feel comfortable in our environment and in our skin, right!?  So ladies, you should know that a man is in awe of you and your body. Don't worry about your insignificant flaws, confidence is key. If you are confident in your skin, you will shine baby. Why do you think some of the seemingly most unattractive women end up with amazingly handsome men? Confidence.

Besides, if it makes you feel any better, know that men have issues too. Do not think that they are 100% confident in themselves at all times. They too, have concerns. Nevertheless, those worries diminish at the sight of... you guessed it... YOU!

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