Where Did She Go?

Have you ever gone out with a girl, not expecting much, but finding so much more? You thought, “It’s just something to do,” but by the time the date is nearing an end, you find yourself holding on to every last second? I know men rarely like to express their feelings, but let’s be honest; there has been someone who gave you those butterflies before. But sometimes, things take a turn and leave you wondering, "What happened after date four that caused her to vanish into thin air?" Here are some viable reasons:

She’s met someone better. I hate to say it, but although you maybe someone’s prince charming, you may not have been hers. She’s moved on, so should you.

You moved way too fast. You are headed for the panties much too soon and that is a complete turn off. If you value the woman you are dating and can see it going further, take care of your needs elsewhere and preserve her for the next phase of your relationship. You’ll have plenty of time for that.

You took too long to give any signs of interest. Yes, some men are guilty of this too. We understand that you may want to "feel things out" and "take things slow," but if you shut us out too much, we’re left to believe, “he’s just not that into me.”

You’re Boring as Hell. It is very possible you may not even realize it, but bruh… You. Are. Boring! If she’s constantly yawning or making excuses to leave you, you’re probably draining the life out of her. On the bright side, if she has stuck around long enough to see dates four or five, she probably saw potential in you so if you get another chance, spice things up and get a personality!

Guys, has this ever happened to you?

Ladies, tell me some reasons you have gone AWOL.

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