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Truth be told, it is one of those nights… lonely. How about you? Has life been kind? Do you have a love life, or how about love IN your life? There is quite a difference; one keeps you warm at night, while the other helps you to remain whole. I’m whole, but feeling a little chilly over the last few evenings. A reality check I suppose. What do we do about it though? Do you look or are you found? Me personally, I want to be captured. I’d like to imagine I’m Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Right, well he is Mr. Big… a past love or even the man who was always there, but never occurred to me. Can a fictional love story be my actuality?
I guess I wonder when I went from not caring about having someone, to imagining myself wrapped up in bliss. Could it be my surroundings? Come to think about it, I absolutely adore Alicia Keys and we all know about her romance. Not to mention the passionate love I see between the unlikely Seal and Heidi Klum. And my friends, well they are either in a committed relationship or wanting it more than I can even fathom. So is it an illusion, a fulfillment that seems right due to circumstances or do I genuinely want my Big?
Since the answer is not apparent I will continue to do as I have done… nothing. I believe that all things happen when the time is right. I will continue to move forward day to day. I suggest you, yes YOU, do the same. He is coming for you, but you must “do you,” and be happy with you in order for him to see you in your true essence. That is true beauty and it resonates with real men.
They say the truest life is dreams awake. Well, I’m dreaming with eyes wide shut!
7.07.2010
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Hey Doll!! well i figured i put my 2 cents in since i am newly "found"! I think love is what you make it...I agree with you, at the end of the day, you have to be happy with who you are, and comfortable and love yourself because as the saying goes " you cant love someone until you love yourself first!" I also believe that what you put out is what you attract, so if your closed and not open to for entertaining the possibility for longevity, people can pick that vibe up just as clear as someone who is DESPARATELY seeking companionship. I say if a relationship is really what you want, let it be known upfront...forget all the dating rules, myths and games and go for it! Let it be known that you're looking for something of statue....this way you can weed out the ones who just want to play around and save face for the one who really wants the commitment and attention for the long haul! Thats what worked for me! ( and you know it took 6 yrs! Love ya!)
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