You Aren’t Good Enough For Me

Have you ever been a relationship that you found yourself questioning? Bottom line is, not everyone is on the same level, but how do you know that Mr./ Ms. Right, may be Mr./ Ms. Wrong? Here are some of the signs:

1. You have to do everything for them. What is the point of having a meaningful relationship if you are treating your significant other more like your child? It is nice to help here and there, but the favor should be returned.

2. They don’t have good hygiene. Ewww, nasty. There is really no more that needs to be said! If you hear, “I just gargled, I don’t have to brush my teeth right now” and “I’ll take a shower later” or ANYTHING close to that… run as fast as you can. Cooties… LOL

3. You have to be careful to not outshine them. If you are an intelligent, witty and charismatic person, there is not a reason that people should not know that. However, if you have to dumb yourself down just to make your mate feel like they fit in, the relationship is doomed. For one, how long can you do that? Two, why would you want to?

4. You are always giving, but you never receive. As the saying goes, it is better to give than to receive, maybe true. It is not ALWAYS better to give and NEVER receive. I mean, come on… let’s be reasonable here. Everyone deserves recognition sometimes.

5. You keep questioning, “Why am I with this person?” Uh, this should have been a MAJOR red flag. If you have to keep asking yourself why you’re with your mate, chances are, they are not on your level, I’m just being honest.

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