Find the One and Have it All

Since making major changes in my life (my move, my career, the focus of bait28.com), I have gained another perspective on the meaning of life, what it is to actually enjoy life and how important it is to not only explore, but to restore. What I mean by that is, living a balanced and happy life means getting out, encountering new people and seeing and observing the beauty in everything.  However, living life to the fullest also means taking time to yourself to relax and regenerate yourself.

I recently read a very interesting quote, "the secret of having it all is knowing you already do!"  For example, although many of us would say we aren't on a mission to find any one particular companion, I am here to tell you that they will come once you find fulfillment with yourself.  It isn't important to try to "make things happen" in your life.  In fact, "trying" to make things happen is the very obstacle that keeps your from reaching your full potential with finding a mate, business partner, love interest, etc.  Just live your life, and know that the rest will unfold for you.

Another extraordinarily big piece of the puzzle is keeping your clear mind of the trash media feeds us, our friends tell us, or our old beliefs impose on us.  This itself is a task, but once you get the hang of it, you will immediately notice a change in your day to day life, including the people and circumstances that reveals themselves to you.  This means to make a conscious effort to keep pure thoughts, thoughts that only serve your best interest in your subconscious mind.  At first it will be a task because naturally our mind drifts and when you actually observe what you are telling yourself, it is no wonder you don't have a better car or more money or that beautiful man that passes you in the hall everyday. As soon as you hear those hints of negativity or doubt, replace them with the knowing that you can and will have anything you want, need and desire.

These are a few simple steps to a better way of attracting and having it all. Of course there is so much more to cover, but let's start here and the rest will begin to follow. Promise!